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mutepointe wrote:the major things that threw me off were that the cranberries is an irish musical group that has a lead woman vocalist. i always thought the group was an all female band. then there is your avatar. everyone knows all dogs are male and all cats are females. that is just basic science. and your avatar even has two cats. then your writing tends to have a nice calm caring style. you rarely threaten to punch someone.
Right. There are the feminine avatars. There is also his use of this emoticon -- :P -- evoking a sort of feminine petulance, which sometimes smacks of a "cat in cream."

Post content has a lot to do with it, as well. The content isn't "male" in nature. Viewers who don't know Cran is male perceive a sort of stereotypical female neediness in the requests for assistance with typically male things like getting keys made and filling bicycle tires, angst over not knowing how to move personal belongings, and so forth. It is also unusual for men to persistently discuss matters of their own health and religion in a public venue--they usually keep that to themselves.

Not that any of this is bad, mind you. It's just not what we associate with male behavior, so the reader adds "berry" + :P + "hardware-impaired" and comes up with . . . "It's a blonde!"
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Men can be blonde:

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Lambchop wrote:"berry" + :P + "hardware-impaired" and comes up with . . . "It's a blonde!"
Do you know what we call an intelligent blonde where I come from?



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I have a cat avatar.

What does thats say about me? :lol:

My handle has a rather tough ring to it though.

That might say something.

Perhaps I need to make another avatar.

How about a striper pole-dancing a giant whistle? :D



You know... Cran DID threaten to "punch someone in the face" the other day.

Thats rather butch don't you think?

Although it did sound a little like "I'll scratch your eyes out!"


Oh and Cran, not the particular "non-traditional gender rolls" I was fishing for but that will do well enough, thanks. :)
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Aanvil wrote: How about a stripper pole-dancing a giant whistle? :D
I had that happen one st. patrick's day with my chieftain low whistle at a pub here called the Dubliner. I was a bit stunned.
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Aanvil wrote:How about a striper pole-dancing a giant whistle? :D
male or female?


ya, ya...doesn't have anything to do with your plumbing :wink:
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Aanvil wrote:Perhaps I need to make another avatar.
I forbid you from changing your avatar. That is all.
Also, your moniker evokes "Blacksmithery", which is duderific...
Cranberry wrote:I don't know To those who enquire about the reasons, they're really complicated even for me...
It seem somewhat confusing for Jehovah's Witnesses, too. The few
I knew in middle school cited Mathew 14:6-10 for the restriction.
Therein, Harod is entertained on his birthday by his niece, and
offers her anything she wants. She asks for John the Baptist's head
on a plate. Because he had promised, he has to oblige, though it
wasn't politically expedient.

Elsewhere, in Genesis 40, on Pharaoh's birthday, he rewards one
servant and kills another. So, many thought that since the Bible
mentions 2 birthdays directly, and both are negative situations,
birthdays must be bad.

But, I think the Watchtower mainly just lumps all celebrations
of worldly events as "pagan" (or more recently, "secular"), and
should therefore be avoided by those concentrating on Celestial
matters...
Maybe the Quaker belief started similarly. But, as Cranberry
says, it's harder to Google for minority Quaker beliefs.
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fearfaoin wrote:duderific
Don't you mean "dudidic" after the ancient Celtic dudids .... or was that doodads? :boggle:

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djm wrote:
fearfaoin wrote:duderific
Don't you mean "dudidic" after the ancient Celtic dudids .... or was that doodads? :boggle:

djm
You mean, like, Druididic Dududes? Man, they're still around...
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djm wrote:
fearfaoin wrote:duderific
Don't you mean "dudidic" after the ancient Celtic dudids .... or was that doodads? :boggle:

djm
...thought 'e meant it sounded like 'e 'ad Celtic doodads, eh!
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Well, that was certainly didactic.

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The Great Duderino?

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