If you have nothing against the belief in Santa Claus, then why did you bring it up? You seem to have no difficulty expressing feelings that you say are impossible to have.Screeeech!!! wrote:It's actually impossible to have something against something that doesn't exist.shadeclan wrote:As a side note, Screech, what do you have against The Big Man In Red? After all, we all have our harmless little fantasies and beliefs in things which have no apparent physical proof, such as elves, hobbits and happy marriages. Unless the belief is going to cause some sort of damage, why not let it alone? I myself teach my kids that Santa Claus is a representation of the spirit of selfless giving. Under that definition, I think that many people can honestly say that they believe in Mr. Claus.
Don't you think that, perhaps, people give you no presents out of respect for your beliefs? That would be my motivation in so doing.Screeeech!!! wrote: I've never noticed this spirit of selfless giving. When i tell people i'm Pagan and therefore don't buy people christmas presents, lo and behold they won't give me anything. There doesn't seem to be any selfless giving going on if you ask me.
Nobody had given me an expensive sportscar either, but I don't think that they are being selfish.Screeeech!!! wrote: but if anyone wishes to proove me wrong and does actually wish to demonstrate how selfless their giving is, then please PM me and i'll let you have my address and maybe you can see your way to sending me a nice Busman whistle.
It may simply be a matter of attitude that you don't see any selfless people around. Why, right here on this board, I saw messages from Jerry Freeman where he agreed to give away a bunch of whistles to two teenage girls who were just learning to whistle so that they could give them out to their friends. I have also noticed some selfless gifts of whistle information from yourself to others. Giving this info may not mean much to you, but it means a great deal to us newbies.
If you feel left out during the Christmas season, I'm sure that there are kind people right here on this board who would be delighted to send you a little something - heck, I'll even pitch in !