Flauta dolce wrote:Finally, I am blowing a few notes into the flute and so on but the lower three notes are not sounding great. My fourth and fifth digits on my right hand are a bit sore also. Mind you, I have the flute only two days now...
I sound absolutely awful...I'm starting to loose all confidence in myself now
Is it going to take me a long time to get everything right?
I even believe I should have started on the flute first, so as to not waste time in picking up basics things (like learning how to blow into it properly).
F.D. :roll:
If you had started on the flute first, you would have been so discouraged that you wouldn't have continued. Do you see how frustrated you are now? Imagine how much worse it would have been if you were also trying to learn tunes and all those other "playing music" things on the flute! How would you ever have gotten round to them? It's impossible when you're still trying to get sound out of your flute.
But, once you know some whistle, you can then work on flute basics while continuing to learn music on the whistle.
I haven't been playing flute all that long . . . only a year . . . so I'll tell you how long it took me. Probably, it will take you less time, because I'm a little slow (= clumsy), but at least you can see that you WILL make progress and that it WILL be worthwhile.
It took a few weeks to get notes out of my flute, and they were awful. I got D, E, and F easily, but could not get the second register at all.
It took three months--seriously, I timed it--to get sound out of my flute when I wanted it
most of the time, and it was still awful. It was four months before I could get d, e, and f, and it took me a week in a hotel playing at a whisper to do it.
It took me three more months to be able to play a tune all the way through slowly and to be able to change the tone of the note (rather than the sound being haphazard and out of my control).
It took me nine months to sound good enough that I wasn't paralyzed with fear that somebody would hear me. The tunes are still awful, but the individual sounds are usually pretty good. The second octave didn't come in clearly until nine months, either, and it's not because of the flute (I have three and it was the same on all).
At ten months, I had to take several weeks off. When I came back to the flute, I had lost some of my embouchure, but the entire second octave came in clearly and I am now able to get the first three or four notes (holes 6, 5, 4, and 3) of the third register, but only in isolation.
So, you can see that it takes time. Most people I've talked to relate somewhat the same experience, and I've heard estimates of three years to be able to hold your own reasonably well. Rather than being discouraged by this, see it as a very worthwhile thing that just takes some time.
There is a lot that has to come together to play the flute. As you make progress, you'll SEE your progress. Even little tiny bits of progress will seem huge to you--this is very rewarding.
Please continue! Everything you are feeling is very normal, I think. Don't be discouraged by it.