My particular version of a mid-life crisis seems to involve zoom-focusing on women of accomplishment (authors, political commentators, physicians or researchers…) while taking deep relaxing breaths and assuring myself that high-caliber accomplishment is not a requirement–nor is it even a possibility for every life.
Indeed, I wish very much (at least sort of) that I could recapture my childhood attitude, characterized by my mother as “happy-go-lucky.”
(I think that meant, “completely out of focus, but unbothered by the fact.”)
Because, dagnabit, if great things are not in the cards, then you might as well relax and enjoy the ride anyway, right?
In the meantime though, and within the parameters dictated by relationships and responsibilities, I do mean to make the most of learning some of the things I ignored as a child. (that dang happy-go-luckyness again, while my brother read Encyclopedia Britannica cover to cover and traced atlases.)
It is hard to catch up, in middle age, but why not try?
I’m currently reading Daniel Boorstin’s The Discoverers and rereading Les Mis en français. I’ll be taking Japanese with the kid this Spring, at the Community College. I’m trying to enhance my fiddle coordination (tough one,) and keep fit.
So, to the Greater Chiff I pose the following challenge:
What would you read if you wanted to know everything? What resources could best establish and enhance a broad base of knowledge?
A favored weekly newsmagazine?
An excellent and readable brief history of Europe (or other parts of the world?)
An at-home course in the most useful additional language?
A means of comprehending music in any or all manifestations?
What if you were suddenly picked as a VP candidate and needed to know everything, all at once, about world affairs and civics?
These are merely suggested categories. Please, supply your own if they occur to you.