Mantra to self - small-minded people don't matter, small-minded people don't matter, small-minded people who disagree with me just because they know I have a lot of whistles, don't matter.
Ok, Marguerite. Let's get into it. In your original post, you said you were having trouble with your new Shaw A whistle, that it was taking so much breath that you didn't think you could ever make it to Low D, which saddened you because you had really wanted to play a Low D. You talked about the key of A and how frustrating it was for you to play it. I wanted to let you know that hope was not lost on your Low D aspirations.
What I ACTUALLY POSTED:
Marguerite, it's the Shaw, not the key of A, that's giving you the problem.
So, of course, you started being rude to me, acting as if I was not being helpful, just because you like to disagree with me. Instead of being rude back, I posted a bit about what I did to improve a too-breathy Clarke. I am a jeweler and I am handy with the rubber mallet. You went on to thank other people for their tweaking suggestions and complained about mine as if it wasn't valid.
In a later post, you said:
Sorry, your "get another whistle" approach isn't helpful. If you have a constructive suggestion that will help me to best use a thoughtful gift, I'd be interesting in knowing it.
Now where did you see a suggestion from me to get another whistle? In mentioning that, sometimes, blaming tools for poor result (or extreme difficulty and physical hardship) is absolutely valid, I was responding to your comments, where you felt it necessary to put me down. In this, you insult not only my unappreciated help to you, but also my musicianship.
Examples:
On 2003-01-07 07:26, mvhplank wrote:
I believe placing blame is a slippery slope toward avoiding personal responsibility
You say that if you have a dull knife, you get it sharpened. Well, if you have a strappy pair of sandals that are ok for summer picnics and you have plans to climb Mount Everest at some point, as much as you practice walking in sandals, you better get yourself some boots before you set out for the base camp. (Low A Shaw to Low D by another maker)
I'm reminded of a trend I observed when I was covering horse shows. You'd see rich hobbyists on high-priced European "made" horses going up against underfunded but hard-working, talented riders who had to make the most of what they had. The rich folks didn't win unless they also had talent. Some of the not-rich riders would have won on a mule because of their greater understanding of the possibilities.
I am not a rich horse racer! I do have talent as a musician, but why would you care about that?
Ok, so apparently, you dislike me so much that you will take everything I say the wrong way. I am a musician and I believe that, whenever possible, instruments should help, as opposed to hinder, the music, but I was just honestly trying to explain to you what the problem was so that you would know that you could, indeed, play a Low D made by another maker at some point in the future.
YOU have been totally rude to me.
~Jessie