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Azalin wrote:Perfect! Let me know Roland when she's ready to hear the great news: that she's going to be picking up the concertina this year and throw away all of her whistles! :D
And don't forget that we'll also be teaching her to play mountain dulcimer!!!
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I am so glad she is home. Now to start the mending....
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missy wrote:
Azalin wrote:Perfect! Let me know Roland when she's ready to hear the great news: that she's going to be picking up the concertina this year and throw away all of her whistles! :D
And don't forget that we'll also be teaching her to play mountain dulcimer!!!
Well, now, I think she's been through enough pain already ;-)
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Hiya Lesley! Glad you're home!!

Hiya Ro! Glad she's home!

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I'm awake now!
Thank you all so much. I will write more soon!
Lesley
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Hello!

Good morning!

So nice to see you.

Best wishes,
Jerry
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Sure glad that you are home!
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Hello again!
Ro is now asleep (!) so I have sneaked back onto the computer, while I am still awake!
I want to say two very important things, if I may. The first is the most enormous thank you to all of you here, who have been such an amazing support to Ro, and thus to me. I felt that I was not leaving him unsupported, should I not have made it, and I am eternally grateful to you all.
My other enormous thank you, and the reason why I am typing this while Ro is asleep and not asking him to do it for me, is to Ro himself. He has been wonderful and I could never have coped without him. This is not just something recent, though: he has always been my husband, partner, lover and best friend, through the whole of our life together. My life would have been indescribably poorer without his love and companionship. I don't want even to imagine it.
He has put up with my red-haired temper all these years, my noisiness, whistling late at night, singing out of tune, practising dances and falling over his feet or mine, and has cheerfully fixed things, made them as I want them, mended stuff I broke, made bits to make life easier, etc. Thank you, Ro. I love you.
I look forward to meeting you all properly! You know so much about me now it is almost embarrassing: at least I can't shock you any further! Thank you all.
Lesley

PS The jokes were just wonderful!! Now I need a nap!
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Welcome home, Lesley! What a sweet couple you and Roland are. It's so nice to get to know you both a little better.

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Welcome home, Lesley. I'm glad you're home!

Please take it slowly and give yourself time to recover.

Warm healing thoughts to the both of you,

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Yup, he's a keeper!

You both are!

Teary joyful (gentle, don't want to risk hurting you!) hugs to both!
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Welcome home!
And now there was no doubt that the trees were really moving - moving in and out through one another as if in a complicated country dance. ('And I suppose,' thought Lucy, 'when trees dance, it must be a very, very country dance indeed.')

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All is well with us tonight! I haven't been able to report that for a while!

Lesley is asleep - again! She is still incredibly frail, although her will is so strong. Just getting up exhausts her, as does sitting up, reading, walking to the loo (which is still a great joy!) - everything really. She does a bit, sleeps a bit, does a bit, sleeps a bit. Lots of whistling, which she really enjoys - at last she can make a noise again, after those weeks of using the mute (except for "her tune"). She can't manage the guitar yet, or the low whistle. Dulcimer and concertina may have to wait a bit!

We are managing the cooking, with Patricia's kind help, and the shower seat has come, although Lesley did like my plastic chair! I can do the washing machine (thanks, folks) and Lesley can instruct me in other essential skills. I know she is looking forward to being able to do more on here, but sitting and typing wear her out at present. I notice she has done some, though!

Plenty of visitors from work for her, who stay until she falls asleep! We are not terribly sociable! Lesley spends time just watching the birds on the feeders in the tree by the window. She has been outside, but by the time she makes it to the door she is already exhausted, so I have wheeled her down the garden a couple of times. That, apparently, is being a wimp, as is using the Zimmer frame! She gets round by hanging onto the furniture, the walls, me . . .

I hope that with all this rest she gradually mends, and is slowly able to take up her life again. It is so good to have her here.

Thank you again, friends.

Ro
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Post by Martin Milner »

One thing that shines through is Roland and Lesley's zest for life.

Despite past bad experiences, this is undiminished, and is a great power on the road to recovery.

Take it slowly Lesley, and don't forget you need rest too Roland!
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Martin Milner wrote:One thing that shines through is Roland and Lesley's zest for life.

Despite past bad experiences, this is undiminished, and is a great power on the road to recovery.

Take it slowly Lesley, and don't forget you need rest too Roland!
Well said.

Even when Roland posted bad news there was always a positive thread running through it.

The main lesson I have learned from Roland's posts is the incredible power of nasal hair.
Much to the consternation of my wife I have stopped clipping mine and I feel like a new man.

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