I have been watching and reading as this thread has progressed waiting to see what would transpire and where this would all end up. I have to go back to
Ro3b's original 'rant'.
I too have spent many a time listening to (through teeth so tightly clenched that my jaw would hurt afterwards!) the said 'accompanist' decorate (or should that be decimate?) a session that until their joining in, was going along quite nicely.
I was at a session (playing whistle) and my friend asked me to take a guitar off another guy or he himself was going to do something he would regret afterwards. I got around the situation by asking the guy if I could try something on his guitar for the next set that was coming up. I hinted to the guy that he should try doing a little bit of what I had just done, just for something different. Well, come the next set, he was back to square one. I had a chat with the guy afterwards and tried to tell him nicely that ITM has a different lilt to it than any other style of music. I showed him a few different rhythyms for the same tune, and how to emphasise the beat at different times in a bar of music, the upbeat, third beat etc.
He was totally ablivious to anything I explained to him and he just carried on banging away regardless.
I am usually very diplomatic in sessions, but now, here in this forum it is time to side with
Ro3b and have a rant on this issue.
IF YOU DON'T KNOW THE TUNE, DON'T PLAY.
We are not having a free for all jam, GO AWAY!
If you are a learner, bring a recording device, then go home and learn the tune for the next time.
If you learned the tune a long time ago and are rusty on it, by all means play softly until you pick it up, second or third time around, but....
IF YOU DON'T KNOW THE TUNE, DON'T PLAY.
Hey you, yeah you with the fancy Maton guitar playing the up down up down 1-2, 1-2 rhythym to every tune, be it reel/jig/polka/slip jig, go away and learn the correct rhythym.
IF YOU DON'T KNOW THE RHYTHYM, DON'T PLAY.
IF YOU DON'T KNOW THE TUNE, DON'T PLAY.
And lastly and most importantly, (Doffing my hat to
Ro3b)
IF YOU DON'T KNOW THE TUNE, DON'T PLAY.
There, I feel a lot better now, I have felt this way but not said anything for a long time. Thank you
Ro3b for the little push over the edge.
I'm away for a lie down!