I've been playing sessions in my town since I moved here, back when it was just two musicians, no listeners, and the venue was awful. Not fun at first, but these things take time and patience to gain momentum.
Since then, we've moved to much better surroundings and attracted more musicians. Most of this is through the efforts of the other musician who was there from the start; she made contact with local bars/cafes, maintained an email list etc. This other musician really manages the session, arranging dates etc.
Anyway, long story short: in a recent email she wrote that the session would now have a $5 cover charge for listeners. Half would go to the cafe, half to her.
I balked at this, because I've never heard of such a thing, that it woudn't be a session if you charged admission, and it just doesn't feel right. Other musician tells me she deserves financial compensation for all her time and effort.
This did not end nicely, because I basically said I wouldn't play anymore. There are other people and it will probably go on without me. This is not totally catastrophic because it's not the only opportunity to play---there is a kick-ass session an hour north of me, featuring some really fantastic people. I was just hoping we'd eventually grow a sesh that I could walk to from my house.
My questions:
- Am I being unreasonable? I've never been a trad nazi, but I draw the line at someone charging admission. Is this just a hang-up on my part?
- Have you ever encountered such a thing? I've never, but I've since been told that some people run sessions with a cover charge.