Never, at any time or place, underestimate the knowledge a Mother has about her children. She may not know you are Gay but I would bet that she has a pretty good idea.Congratulations wrote:I'm mostly in the dark about this, but if I had to guess:chas wrote:I don't think I've seen in the thread: How do you think she'll take it?
There is a slim possibility that she's guessed. That would change things significantly. But if it goes the way I predict, she'll be caught extremely off-guard, she'll cry a lot, and then maybe half an hour later she'll want to talk. And once she's able to sit down with me, and hear me talk about it, and she can see that I'm okay with this, that it's not something that's hurting me or anything, I think she'll come around. It'll take a while from there for her to fully comprehend, but that's my guess. Above all, she loves her children with everything she has, and I have to believe that that fact will make all of this come together.
On the odd occasion that this topic comes up in my circle I always ask"If you found out that your child was Gay would you love them any the less?", I have never got a negative answer.
Bite the bullet and get it out of the way,you're a witty, healthy and very polite, charming dude. Virtues anybody would admire in one of their children. I can understand how awkward it will be for you but you will cross bigger bridges than this as time passes.
If her husband has a problem with it that's tough but he'll just have to deal with his own phobias and get on with it.
Hang tough Bro and keep it honest and true...it'll all work out in the end.
Slan,
D.