Cynth wrote:Okay, I'm sure it is because I went to an American college, but I don't understand what this choice means:Your friends are causeless? What the heck is that?your friends and admirers are causeless and have nothing to say to you
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Oh Dear! I see you are suffering the tyranny of American literalism again ........ Do you not read theology? Ever?
Let me put on my saturnine cap for a moment and plod through this with you.
The first synonym for "cause (noun)" is "origin" (Oxford Thesaurus) and the primary meaning of "cause (noun)" is "what produces an effect" (Oxford Concise Dictionary).
A causeless friendship is, like God's causeless love, something that is not an effect of something, something which has no origin, something that is eternal, uncaused and therefore beyond the obsessive reach of explanation.
A causeless friendship has no reason to be, nothing to achieve, no quid pro quo . A causeless friendship need not prove itself, need not fill the vacuum of distance with incessant PMs, perennial encouragement, social approbation.
A causeless friendship, like the inimitable silence between seasoned lovers, revels in the timeless fullness of being.
Do they have such friendships in America?