Bloomfield wrote: Yawn.
While we're yawning though, I would just like to pass along a story. I was once at a gathering of some fellow members of the Unitarian church, which I mention because I went to the gathering with the expectation that everyone there was, to a certain degree, "prescreened" and probably most likable. There was a man there, with his wife, whose face struck me as
very unattractive, to the point where I pitied him a little. As the evening continued and I actually talked with this man, and listened to his interactions with others, I developed a sense of deep kindness and goodness in this man along with a sweet and quick wit and obvious intelligence. And I was stunned when I realized that I could no longer even see what I thought was so ugly before; I honestly could not reconstruct what I thought was so unappealing. That is,
he looked different--furthermore, he looked
attractive. At an intellectual level we all know this phenomenon, but I have never had a more dramatic example in my life and I will never forget it.
So the moral of the story: look beyond the "pickle face" and parrot voice to the beauty of the inner Gilbert Gottfried. Well, okay, maybe not
him, but, you know,
generally.
Carol