Tony, I think your heart is in the right place and, although I myself don't think this joke is one of them, I have, on a very few occasions, seen some extremely mean-hearted sentiments expressed as an innocent "joke" in these forums. I think everyone probably knows jokes can offend people; the problem is that not everyone cares. It never hurts to give it some thought.
This reminds me of a joke a friend of mine tells. He starts off with a long list of different physical conditions and how their names have changed:
Blind - visually challenged etc
Then he goes on about his girlfriend and how she's incapable of even whistling 4 bars in tune or in time (my friend is an accomplished musician). Anyway, he refers to his girlfriend as being musically challenged.
I'm known as "vertically challenged" around here (I'm 5'4"). I don't think I'm short, but that's because my dad was 5'5", mom - 5' even, and all my grandparents under 5' (one grandmother was 4'8").
Until I had Lasik (and Nate grew to 5'10") we used to call ourselves the myopic midgets!
PJ wrote:This reminds me of a joke a friend of mine tells. He starts off with a long list of different physical conditions and how their names have changed:
Blind - visually challenged etc.
One thing that I liked about learning sign language is that the people called themselves Deaf (most of the instructors I had were born Deaf and so were not the “hard of Hearing” late in life variety.) They claim the word as a culture and seem to not let it become derogatory.
"Be not deceived by the sweet words of proverbial philosophy. Sugar of lead is a poison."
There are always people looking for an excuse to be offended. I hear so much complaining about being offended that I have become innured to it. But worst of all (IMHO) are those who are not even members of the group being joked about, but who nonetheless take umbrage "on behalf" of those who might have been offended. To them I can only say, for f**** sake, get a life.
djm
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