Regarding the point of my objecting to your "condescending" to tell me how I feel, I have to stand my ground. What I said was about feelings: "To a great extent, many of us Americans are rootless people who long for a lost sense of place and community."Bloomfield wrote:I am talking about your argument, not your feelings. If you want to discuss those, just let me know, and I will be as humble and as gentle as I can. I am not condescending to you by responding to your argument with my argument. Nor did I tell you what you feel. Thank you for not reciprocating with condescention by, for example, telling me I am in no position to understand.Jerry Freeman wrote:Seriously, Bloo.Bloomfield wrote: Hogwash.
Notwithstanding your erudition and rhetorical prowess, you're not in a position to understand. Please don't condescend to tell me what I feel. Unbelieveably callous.
Best wishes,
Jerry
As a cultural proposition, I still think you're wrong at least in the sense that "many of us Americans" would feel any more rootless etc. than "many of us Europeans."
I know I shouldn't say things like "hogwash." But I can't always resist. I'm not even serious about that. Sorry: guilty as charged on that count. I should either shut up or tell you outright that I find it unappetizing when you go from calling Peter's post "mean-spirited" to calling for "empathy" to talking about "rightful heritage" and "entitlement" and ending up with "Please. We are one family..."
Probably shouldn't have said that last bit either. Look at it this way: I am paying you the compliment of honesty.
Best wishes,
Bloomfield
I don't dispute that there's something that can be called American culture, but that doesn't mean what I'm saying is untrue. The point is, many of us do not feel rooted in that, or any other culture (and many do, too, of course). This is a real malaise, and I'm sure I'm not the only American who feels it deeply.
This comment of yours caught me by surprise:
You are certainly in a position to tell me how many Europeans feel. It hadn't occurred to me that a similar rootlessness malaise might be affecting Europeans, too. I'm used to us Americans being the ones derided as superficial and without culture. My immediate reaction to your comment, though, is to think the uprooting or rootlessness among Europeans born after WWII might have been much a result of, or at least contributed to by, the disproportionate American commercial and cultural influence after WWII.Americans have much deeper cultural roots than Europeans born after WW II.
Best wishes,
Jerry