OT: an unexpected death in the family

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James,

My sympathies too. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.
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Jim and Shannon,Please accept my condolences.
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James, please accept my condolences.
Your father went the best possible way.
Now, you get a hard part many of us seem to have been through.
In a similar occasion, I thought I was ok; in fact, I was shellshocked, flying on autopilot.
If, in a few weeks from now, you detect something similar, or just feeling a bit bizarre, do get help while you can.
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So sorry for your loss, James. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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My condolences.
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Post by Roger O'Keeffe »

Sincere condolences. No matter how it happens, it hits you in some way or another, but if it's unexpected it probably takes time for it to register.

By the time my Dad died, he had been in a long decline from emphysema and chronic (smoking-induced!) bronchitis. He was 73. My Mum was just two days short of her 90th birthday when she died, and she had also been in a long, slow decline from Parkinson's disease. So by the time of both of their deaths, we had already got used to the idea and the end came as a "happy release". It's much harder to cope with an untimely death, but at least your Dad had the good fortune that he didn't see himself grow infirm and helpless.
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You have my My condolences.

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All my sympathy to you and yours, Jim. Sudden loss of a parent is a terrible shock which (if my own experience is anything to go by) will reverberate in your life for many years. Wishing you good courage.
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James - my sincere sympathies....your father must have a been a wonderful man.

Goin' home, goin' home, I'm a goin' home;
Quiet-like, some still day, I'm jes' goin' home.
It's not far, jes' close by,
Through an open door;
Work all done, care laid by,
Gwine to fear no more.

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Larry
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I just wanted to say thank you so much, to all of you.

After a 10:00 service in Texarkana, my father will be buried this Saturday at noon at Antoine, Arkansas. Patrick McReynolds will be playing the pipes as my father is laid to his long rest.

At this time of grief and loss, for me and as well on the behalf on my family I thank you with all my heart.

This is a community of friends, and every one of you is my friend, and at this time, that friendship means more than I have words to tell you.

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I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our Dads are so important...........it is a hard thing to give them up.

Prayers to you and your family.
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James, I am so sorry. I lost a dearly loved little sister once but neither of my parents yet so I can only imagine what you must be going through. You will be in my prayers.

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James, please accept my condolences and know your father, as well as you and your family, have been lifted up in prayer. As one who has lost both his parents, please know your father will always be with you through your memories of him.

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Post by Henke »

James. I'm truly sorry for your loss. Lives of us humans are much about pain, sorrow and death, but also moments of joy and happieness, even tough it's hard to see them in the shades of the sorrow. You have my symphaties and I pray that you will find strenght to move on.
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Post by lixnaw »

without happiness and sorrow, life on this earth won't excist.
i wich you all the love and strenght james, to help you through this loss.
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