I think the discussion is turning a corner at this point and going in a direction it shouldn't without thoroughly knowing the details of both sides of the story.I have reconsidered after reading this post and no matter how nice his flutes are I will not deal with the man if this is the way he does business. I understand there's two sides of every story, but when several people have lost their money or flutes or both, I have no trouble saying this.
I think most people who have met Sam will agree he's a lovely guy who pours his heart into the instruments he makes. Some here who know him better than I do, I only bought a flute off him, have referred to him as an artist, one with the temperament maybe that sometimes goes with that. I know a few makers of instruments, uilleann pipemakers mostly, and have seen the pressures dealing with customers puts on them. It's not something conducive to the state of mind needed to concentrate on making instruments and while different people respond to this in different ways, none of them respond well to this side of the trade.
Personally I don't think there's deliberate malice on Sam's part. But if'd say we're dealing with someone who doesn't react well to pressure I would probably project too much of myself into that statement so I won't risk speculating one way or another.
I can say I am not a big fan at all of a trial by internet.
I have seen the situation Steampacket finds himself in develop from the day he set out to Galway to drop off the flute for repair and an offer to collect the flute for him, if a time/date for collection was arranged, has been standing since a few months after that drop off. I hope this will get resolved. That's as much as I, or anyone else, can say about this.