Shanghaied!
- s1m0n
- Posts: 10069
- Joined: Wed Oct 06, 2004 12:17 am
- antispam: No
- Please enter the next number in sequence: 10
- Location: The Inside Passage
Shanghaied!
In a lifetime of rash decisions, I may well have just made the worst yet: I've agreed to spend 30 days cruising the labrador coast in a 30 foot yacht with the father I have yet to meet.
I'm an adoptee who only last year managed to track down my birth mother. She told me the name of my dad, and I've been corresponding with him for a few months. He turns out to be a reasonably famous yachtsman who at one point sailed solo around the world and made a movie about it. Anyway, he's eager to meet me. He'd known that I was on the way, but as a younger man his reaction was to do a runner, so apart from the vague knowledge that some baby somewhere was his, he was totally in the dark.
Fiftyish years later his attitude is very different. He'd had daughters but never a son, and says that he had always imagined that his unknown child was a boy. The really spooky detail is that if either of his daughters had been born a boy, his intention was to give it my name: Simon.
Anyway after some shilly-shallying about whether he was going to fly out here (BC) or I was going there (Montreal), he invited me along on a month-long cruise up the Labrador coast this summer. I accepted. After 30 days in a 30 foot boat, I believe I can say with confidence that we'll each have an excellent idea whether we get along. This could be a disaster but I suspect there's a equal chance it's going to be incredible.
And oh yeah - the other spooky detail is that he also plays a wooden flute.
I'm an adoptee who only last year managed to track down my birth mother. She told me the name of my dad, and I've been corresponding with him for a few months. He turns out to be a reasonably famous yachtsman who at one point sailed solo around the world and made a movie about it. Anyway, he's eager to meet me. He'd known that I was on the way, but as a younger man his reaction was to do a runner, so apart from the vague knowledge that some baby somewhere was his, he was totally in the dark.
Fiftyish years later his attitude is very different. He'd had daughters but never a son, and says that he had always imagined that his unknown child was a boy. The really spooky detail is that if either of his daughters had been born a boy, his intention was to give it my name: Simon.
Anyway after some shilly-shallying about whether he was going to fly out here (BC) or I was going there (Montreal), he invited me along on a month-long cruise up the Labrador coast this summer. I accepted. After 30 days in a 30 foot boat, I believe I can say with confidence that we'll each have an excellent idea whether we get along. This could be a disaster but I suspect there's a equal chance it's going to be incredible.
And oh yeah - the other spooky detail is that he also plays a wooden flute.
And now there was no doubt that the trees were really moving - moving in and out through one another as if in a complicated country dance. ('And I suppose,' thought Lucy, 'when trees dance, it must be a very, very country dance indeed.')
C.S. Lewis
C.S. Lewis
- benhall.1
- Moderator
- Posts: 14816
- Joined: Wed Jan 14, 2009 5:21 pm
- antispam: No
- Please enter the next number in sequence: 8
- Tell us something.: I'm a fiddler and, latterly, a fluter. I love the flute. I wish I'd always played it. I love the whistle as well. I'm blessed in having really lovely instruments for all of my musical interests.
- Location: Unimportant island off the great mainland of Europe
Re: Shanghaied!
Good luck!
Don't know about you, S1m0n, but if it was me, I know I'd have a better chance of having a reasonable time if I went with no expectations whatever. Mind a blank slate.
I really hope it goes well.
Don't know about you, S1m0n, but if it was me, I know I'd have a better chance of having a reasonable time if I went with no expectations whatever. Mind a blank slate.
I really hope it goes well.
- Innocent Bystander
- Posts: 6816
- Joined: Wed Aug 03, 2005 12:51 pm
- antispam: No
- Location: Directly above the centre of the Earth (UK)
- emmline
- Posts: 11859
- Joined: Mon Nov 03, 2003 10:33 am
- antispam: No
- Location: Annapolis, MD
- Contact:
Re: Shanghaied!
Wow. Maybe the trick is to just think about him as a person you're meeting, and don't put much stock in the genetic relationship. I mean, don't go thinking that'll make any difference. He's a guy, you're a guy. Hang out.
- I.D.10-t
- Posts: 7660
- Joined: Wed Dec 17, 2003 9:57 am
- antispam: No
- Location: Minneapolis, MN, USA, Earth
Re: Shanghaied!
Imagine if he played the pipes, or a fife. A month on a yaght would seem like a year.s1m0n wrote:...he also plays a wooden flute.
Hope you have a great time.
"Be not deceived by the sweet words of proverbial philosophy. Sugar of lead is a poison."
Re: Shanghaied!
I'd ask to see his cruising logs, has he sunk or run aground recently?
Re: Shanghaied!
WOW!!!
as ya both want to get to know each other
and neutral ground not being a good option
30 days on a sail boat should do it!
Should be the experience of a lifetime!
Have ya ever sailed before?
Oh, if it isn't going well, mind the boom.
as ya both want to get to know each other
and neutral ground not being a good option
30 days on a sail boat should do it!
Should be the experience of a lifetime!
Have ya ever sailed before?
Oh, if it isn't going well, mind the boom.
Picture a bright blue ball just spinning, spinning free
It's dizzying, the possibilities. Ashes, Ashes all fall down.
It's dizzying, the possibilities. Ashes, Ashes all fall down.
- kokopelli
- Posts: 230
- Joined: Thu Mar 03, 2011 1:47 am
- antispam: No
- Please enter the next number in sequence: 12
- Location: CA, USA
Re: Shanghaied!
I'll second that. I nearly got knocked off a 36' sailboat once because I wasn't paying attention to the boom.Denny wrote: Oh, if it isn't going well, mind the boom.
Good luck. I hope you get along well with him.
- mutepointe
- Posts: 8151
- Joined: Wed Jan 04, 2006 10:16 pm
- Please enter the next number in sequence: 1
- Location: kanawha county, west virginia
- Contact:
Re: Shanghaied!
Take pictures. Have the time of your life.
Rose tint my world. Keep me safe from my trouble and pain.
白飞梦
白飞梦
- MTGuru
- Posts: 18663
- Joined: Sat Sep 30, 2006 12:45 pm
- antispam: No
- Please enter the next number in sequence: 8
- Location: San Diego, CA
Re: Shanghaied!
If you actually end up in Shanghai, that will be a real adventure.
Vivat diabolus in musica! MTGuru's (old) GG Clips / Blackbird Clips
Joel Barish: Is there any risk of brain damage?
Dr. Mierzwiak: Well, technically speaking, the procedure is brain damage.
Joel Barish: Is there any risk of brain damage?
Dr. Mierzwiak: Well, technically speaking, the procedure is brain damage.
- s1m0n
- Posts: 10069
- Joined: Wed Oct 06, 2004 12:17 am
- antispam: No
- Please enter the next number in sequence: 10
- Location: The Inside Passage
Re: Shanghaied!
I don't think so. He's spent years of his life on that boat, and made his last Atlantic crossing only a few years ago in his late sixties. What I'm more worried about is something like a heart attack or stroke in which he's incapacitated leaving me to get us out of there. I'm comfortable enough to sail a dinghy solo in moderate weather, but that scenario leaves a lot of possibilities out.dwest wrote:I'd ask to see his cruising logs, has he sunk or run aground recently?
And now there was no doubt that the trees were really moving - moving in and out through one another as if in a complicated country dance. ('And I suppose,' thought Lucy, 'when trees dance, it must be a very, very country dance indeed.')
C.S. Lewis
C.S. Lewis
Re: Shanghaied!
Here on the Bay getting "paid by the boom" was the typical way of compensating "Shanghaied" "arstermen" before the captain took the skipjack to port to offload a catch...and "hire" new employees.Denny wrote:
Oh, if it isn't going well, mind the boom.
Re: Shanghaied!
it does remove the potential for a lot of those labor disputes
Picture a bright blue ball just spinning, spinning free
It's dizzying, the possibilities. Ashes, Ashes all fall down.
It's dizzying, the possibilities. Ashes, Ashes all fall down.
- mutepointe
- Posts: 8151
- Joined: Wed Jan 04, 2006 10:16 pm
- Please enter the next number in sequence: 1
- Location: kanawha county, west virginia
- Contact:
Re: Shanghaied!
I couldn't get anyone to canoe with me for over a year after my heart surgery, even my best friend. No one wanted to row back by themselves if something happened. Finally my nephew visited. Summa beaches.s1m0n wrote:What I'm more worried about is something like a heart attack or stroke in which he's incapacitated leaving me to get us out of there. I'm comfortable enough to sail a dinghy solo in moderate weather, but that scenario leaves a lot of possibilities out.
Rose tint my world. Keep me safe from my trouble and pain.
白飞梦
白飞梦
Re: Shanghaied!
Just make sure he has a shot of malt each day, and take a sailing class at one of the schools in Vancouver.s1m0n wrote:I don't think so. He's spent years of his life on that boat, and made his last Atlantic crossing only a few years ago in his late sixties. What I'm more worried about is something like a heart attack or stroke in which he's incapacitated leaving me to get us out of there. I'm comfortable enough to sail a dinghy solo in moderate weather, but that scenario leaves a lot of possibilities out.dwest wrote:I'd ask to see his cruising logs, has he sunk or run aground recently?