jim stone wrote:Well, forgive me, but the study isn't quite so silly, IMO,
when placed in context.
The researchers have found in previous studies that women
go for status more than good looks in seeking out long-term
mates. Men go for good looks. This new research allegedly
shows that women, if they go for casual sex (which they
are less likely to than are men, according to the study)
are drawn to good looks more than other factors (e.g.
status or kindness).
That isn't earthshaking or unexpected, but, supposing the
study is sound, we've learned something that we didn't
actually know.
The report that people are interested in attractive members
of the opposite sex isn't news--but that women interested in
casual sex go for physical attractiveness
principally, while they go for something different
in seeking long term relations, has some interest.
A lot of research that makes sense as part of a larger program
can look silly taken alone.
But
Jim, it seems like these people are studying just a certain type of people. Like, not very nice people or something. I mean, I hope it isn't just commonly believed that all women marry for status. I know all rich men have beautiful wives, I learned that from magazine covers at the checkout stand, but then those people aren't very nice really. What about love and talking and things like that? Regular people I know aren't going "Well, he's good looking but that one makes more money so I'll marry him."
Actually, the women are making as much money as the men and they tend to drone on and on about honesty and stuff like that.
And the casual sex thing. Their findings are really not new.
Jim, if you are this type of person and you are looking for something to eat and you are really hungry and don't have all night, you aren't going to do a lot of research, right? You are going to look around the room once and take the meal that looks the best. Since your concern does not go past the next few hours, other qualities just aren't that relevant. I mean you would want to avoid killers and the like, but beyond that it's just like eating a meal---I suppose sometimes it turns out better than others. God only knows. But for the long term, yes, you are going to need lots of money, so if you are this sort of person, then you have to find a male with status which in humans is money, one difference from the baboons where it is strength. But I don't think that many people behave this way, so that's why I don't think this research is particularly relevant besides not revealing anything we didn't already know.
Diligentia maximum etiam mediocris ingeni subsidium. ~ Diligence is a very great help even to a mediocre intelligence.----Seneca