Why apologize? Are you ashamed of what you wrote?To Blackhawk and Neil (with apologies to everyone else):
It is an amusing pastime.Also, you have to realize that Neil is a very punctilious man. Several times in the past he has picked apart my posts phrase by phrase by phrase. So, in my previous reply, I thought I would give him a taste of his own medicine - without any added rancour. (Daft idea, probably.)
"Punctilious" is it? Very well ...
... there are only two "s"-es in "premises," according to my dictionary.I was attempting - without offering any comment on the discussion at issue - to show him that his questions were predicated on false premisses.
The context gave me the idea. To recapitulate: When I asked how a newbie was to know what questions not to ask hereabouts, you assumed I was referring to lollycross. When you pointed out she had been around for a while, I asked whether you thought that meant it was therefore open season on all such.No. What gave you that idea? I was merely pointing out that your question was beside the point.Are you suggesting that if someone has sufficient tenure on the board we are no longer obligated to be nice to them?
Quite reasonable when you think about it. "Yes" or "no" would have sufficed.
Not hardly. The question was phrased as it was in order to point up what had in fact been done and to stimulate thought on the subject.Yes I realize that. (Do credit me with a little intelligence.) Again, I was merely commenting on the way you phrased your question, which was tantamount to putting words into people's mouths.I was referring to the reception she got from a couple of "old timers" on the board who should have known better. Others of us had responded to her question in constructive ways when they chimed in, gratuitously, condescendingly, rather insufferably.
As you point out, my sentiments on the subject are well known. There is a world of difference, I find, between a person exercising judgement in what they write, perhaps electing under some circumstances not to write at all, and a person <b>being</b> silenced by others. My suggestion is in favor of the exercise of judgement, even compassion. No other form of discipline ever works so well as self-discipline.I would have said that all questions are acceptable, as are all answers. Knowing your views on the importance of not silencing people, I would have imagined you would agree.How <b>is</b> one to know what is acceptable to ask, and what not? Is it in the FAQ somewhere?
Never! A lout, it happens, is easy to recognize, whether in person or in print. I simply identify them as such, and soldier on.It does no harm to be courteous, of course. That's a choice we can all make. I try. But tell me, would you silence those who fail to meet your criteria of courtesy?What harm does it do to be courteous?
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Best regards,
Neil Dickey
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