Bill Wolfe is a good flute player in the Nashville area; contact these people and see if they can help you get in touch with him:
http://www.nashvillecountrydancers.org/contra.htmlAnd for the pipes, Skip Cleavinger's in Bowling Green, Kentucky. If you're willing to make the drive -- even if you only go once a month -- it will be worth it.
He also gets to Nashville for recording and jam sessions pretty regularly, so ....
http://www.myspace.com/skipcleavingerhttp://cdbaby.com/cd/skipcleavingerI think he goes by skipjam on this board if you want to PM him from here. He's a good, good soul.