Thomaston wrote:
Well, the wife put her foot down on a new instrument. She even went so far as to say it's stupid to want or need more than one whistle. So I guess you'll be seeing a Burke, Busman, Milligan, and some Freemans soon FS.
I played guitar for 25 years on the same single instrument before I suddenly realized it's actually perfectly fine to own more than one guitar (there was this guy who said "You only live once and then you'll be dead for a long, long time"). Owning more guitars (large, small, nylon, steel, 12-string, 6-string) got me out of the 25-year no-progress rut. I learned more about music and guitar playing the next four years than during all of the previous 25 years, and it just continued over the following years. Bought another one some months ago and its different character made me try to play differently, and I'm now a better player than I was half a year ago. I recently got back to one of the first 'extra' guitars I bought 15 years ago (a small travel-sized acoustic) and it excels at certain styles played in certain rooms. I could apply what I recently learned to that old guitar.
Getting out of the 'one instrument is enough and all you shall ever need' idea was the best thing I ever did.
A spouse should not even think of having a say in what his/her partner needs or wants in the area of interest of said partner, as long as the economy is there. I wouldn't dream of trying to stop my gf from buying whatever she wants and can afford. Ten harps? Go for it! If and when she asks for advice when having to choose I give it, but that's it.
-Tor